Importance of Pre Matrimonial Investigation
Importance of Pre Matrimonial Investigation
Trust is the foundation of every happy and healthy relationship. For a successful marriage, you must ensure that you know everything about your partner and family background before getting married. If any small or big secret is found after getting married, be it related to past, family problem, illness, financial situation etc. it can lead to stress, disputes and even divorce in some cases. Ultimately, it’s a matter of whole life and you would like to be cent per cent sure before taking any decision. In such cases, hiring a detective agency for Pre Matrimonial Investigation can be a smart choice.
In case of arrange marriage or even love marriage when families of potential partners don’t know about each other. There’s always some insecurity and people try to do informal background checks.
Pre Matrimonial investigation by professionals provides you security of mind by ensuring that you are marrying the right person without revealing your identity. In poor cases, it can save you from an upcoming disaster in your life.
There are two ways of doing Pre Matrimonial Investigation. One way is a general enquiry about the prospectus partner about character, financial and social status, education qualifications, past marriages, habits etc. Another way is taking the potential partner into a surveillance or shadowing their daily outdoor activities.
Here is the list of major facts that you should get Pre Matrimonial Investigation done about your potential partner before getting married:
Background Check
Pre Matrimonial Investigation helps you know the daily routine, habits, social circle and your potential partner’s image in the society. A basic character of a person is investigated in this.
Social and financial status of the family
In India, it is believed that marriage is not just between the Groom and the Bride. It is also between two families. Therefore, knowing the reputation of the family in society is very important. It is also important to verify that the Bio-Data of your potential partner is accurate. Investigation helps you to know the total sum of assets and debts on the family. You need to be sure that family you are tying up with is in no debt.
Past Relationship/present affair
Investigation helps you to find out if your potential partner is having an affair while looking for a partner to marriage or any past relationship which can effect yours after marriage life. In some cases, it happens that parents are looking for a partner for their child and your potential partner is in another relationship or any past relationship still have any effect on your potential partner’s life.
Any physical/mental illness
If any major illness is discovered in a partner after marriage or any issue with mental health or behavioural problem is caught it can cause a life long problem to you and relationship won’t be compatible enough. Pre Matrimonial Investigation has proven methods to find these crucial details out.
Alcohol/Drug Habits
No one would tell you before marriage if he/she is addicted to any drug or alcohol as it would cause a bad impression but discovery of such truth after marriage may discomfort you. Investigation of such truth before marriage is very crucial.
Any Criminal Record
Before making a life long bond with anyone it is important to be sure that the potential partner has a clean criminal record. This is ensured by us by investigating through various methods such as investigating in the neighbourhood and checking various official records.
Past Marriage and reason for divorce
In case of a second marriage, there might be a possibility that your potential partner is hiding the reason for divorce. Knowing the right reason is important as the same reason may also effect your marriage in the future. Investigation in the neighborhood, court, with lawyers and through various other sources is done to verify the information provided by your potential partner. Sometimes, the ex-partner is also contacted to know the reason.
Transparency in marriage is very important to maintain a peaceful and stable life long relationship. Pre Matrimonial Investigation ensures trust and security in marriage. Matrimonial sites such as matrimonyindians.com, matrimonialindians.com etc are very good in finding the partner but the information provided is needed to be verified and trust is needed to be built as potential partners and their family doesn’t have any common connection or know each other. Without proper investigation, marriage becomes a gamble.